"Let’s talk about how my almost twenty year old life isn’t going as planned and yours probably isn’t either and where the heck do we go from here?"
This is something I have been thinking about lately. Where do we go from here?
A friend of mine brought up that most people don't have their life together until they're close to their 30's, which to me, seems about right.
So to that question (where do we go from here?) I answer. BE HAPPY.
(See! don't I look happy here! I was actually happy I promise!)
Be happy and just live your life. Whether you are where you planned to be at this age (whatever age that might be) or not you're alive and you're where you're supposed to be.
And believe it or not, where you are supposed to be isn't always where you planned to be.
As long as you're happy with your life and where you are at then honestly, I think that is all that matters.
Until next time..
I'm 28 and I swear I'm still winging it! As I say to my friend "I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up" then again this time she corrected me and told me that I would at least be a Mum when I grew up (my baby is due in 3 weeks). Then I get questions like "are you going back to work after baby is born?" Erm....well.....I haven't got a clue at all!
ReplyDeleteIt's not the be all and end all if you don't know what you want to do. I have a friend who is in her 40s (maybe early 50s but I'm not sure so we'll stick with 40s lol) and she's recently left her old job to have a gap year! I think she's doing an internship with a local charity to see what she'd like to do next.
First, congratulations on your baby and I hope the rest of your pregnancy flies by flawlessly! :) and winging it is the only thing I can think to do right now haha glad to hear it's going well for you so far! lol
ReplyDeleteand that's awesome to hear about your friend! i hope she loves whatever she decides to do next!